Things weren't be just what you see.
A pen might not be just a stick with ink.
A paper might not be just a thin and fragile sheet.
A rubbish bin might not be just a storage of unwanted stuff.
Pen may be your memory recorder.
Paper may be your prove certificate.
Rubbish bin may be keeping things you ever need.
We never know what we actually are.
We see, we hear, we judge.
We talk, we discuss, we judge again.
We interact, we judge once again.
People look at me and said..
She looks "cheerful, hardworking, talkative, talented"
People who talked about me said..
She is "strict, sensitive, kind, stressed"
People interact with me and said..
She is "soft-hearted, pessimistic, over-worried, forever-dilemma"
What they see might not be what I really am.
What I really intended might not be what people received.
You don't know that I don't know that you don't know.
I don't know that you don't know that I don't know.
We might be good but viewed as bad.
We might be bad but viewed as good.
I'm not talented in music,
but because of a paper certificate that prove me, I viewed by others as talented.
I'm not cheerful or optimistic as they thought, deep inside I'm low in confidence and pessimistic.
Judging is not our job.
Judging is not a paid job, but people are willing to do so.
You may say you don't but don't tell me you never judge a person is a girl or boy when you are calling him or her as a "miss" or a "mister", HAHAHA
Unless you say you are paid to judge like an examiner, a lecturer or whatsoever.
Yeah, we judge..
Is it a bad thing?
We tend to misunderstand people.....
BUT.. without judging will be even worse right?
We will not be able to make decisions.
Well, world is always two-faced.
The bright and the dark, the shallow and the deep.
Without "this" we will not compare "that".
Without differences, we cannot see anything.
Because of something, therefore here is something.
Same as human.
It all just proved that we are somebody because there is nobody.
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